Sunday, March 11, 2012

mixed messages...

so i caught up with my best friend today - we did our regular pedi/mani/lunch/shop catch up and i really needed to get some outside input...

since my thoughts about this person have been almost all consuming since thursday...when he texted me saying he'd buy me a drink

now i had thought at that point, he might fancy me...and whilst that is a good thing, it's also brought up many similarities with my relationship with ben...and i think, that maybe just maybe, the pattern is re-appearing so i can break it...yep, pretty sure about that!

so of course him asking me to coach him, and the subsequent rude email last night, well not rude, so much as, just without niceties (or maybe it was rude - at best it was nonconstructive!) has made me wonder if he was only being nice to me with an ulterior motive...

so i asked Sar what her thoughts were, and she thinks i am definitely getting mixed messages...and sure, that doesn't actually help me sift through them, but at least, it means someone else would read his communications with me the way i have...

so i'm left wondering, wondering if he likes me or if he just wants coaching, and i'm left thinking that i'm not sure coaching him is a good idea....

shit! i have also noticed in more recent times, since we've been talking more, and since he started following me on twitter, before i disappeared, he has been awkward with me...or is it me? am i awkward with him too? i'm sure there is something there - don't know what it is, but it feels as though there is a mutual attraction,  if you could call it that?

ah fuck...who knows, i'm a bit over the time it's taking up today so am going to throw myself into Lexie...

perhaps more light will be shed in coming days!

nite peeps
xx

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