perspective...

sooo tonight i got 2 new perspectives on the situation...one from my best friend and one from her hubby! both interesting and food for thought...

so KK's perspective is that he's flirting and likes the attention he's getting, even though i am not flirting with him and have made it very clear i'm not up for that....what she also said was that if i was a huge fat heffalump (lovely expression) that he wouldn't even be in contact with me....i have no idea if she's right, but she makes a good point....and really, where does that leave me?

her hubby's perspective is that he is living in the past, and that i should not let him know that i'm not over it (even if i'm not) and to tell him to get fucked (his words, not mine, but i have had that thought pop into my head on occasion)....simple and yet effective...

so as i crawl into bed exhausted (i am tired - seems between PMT, the full moon, the healing I had monday, i am just exhausted - had to drag myself on my walk/run today...still did it mind) i will contemplate the new perspectives....

thanks KK xxxx