interesting word, and indeed concept...
and funnily enough even though in therapy the concept had come up a bit, it hadn't occurred to me that in fact, boundaries are important in almost every aspect of our lives...
so the sad reality is that once we realise the important role that boundaries can play in our lives, invariably someone oversteps that boundary and it is uncomfortable...
guess that happened to me - someone i trusted overstepped the mark, and perhaps not intentionally, in fact i'm certain not intentionally, but either way, she did, and i didn't like it, and it took me almost a year to a) see it and b) do something about it...
looking back on the angst it caused me, i am grateful now that i have learned just how important boundaries are - it's gonna make it way easier for me to establish and maintain them...
like all lessons, seems to be much better learned the hard way...do you reckon that's ever gonna change?
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